Becoming
Humane - Being Humane Evolution of the
Humane - Globalisation of Peace - World in
Balance Purpose,
Faith and Love Rainer
Taëni (
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) The Quest for
Meaning In these times of
uncertainty and widespread disillusionment, many people are
asking themselves how to give meaning to their lives. A
common answer to this quest is the setting of a personal
goal, which is then pursued by means of purposive action - a
goal such as succeeding in an academic or business career,
achieving recognition in sport or the arts, gaining power in
politics or wealth through the stock exchange
etc. But does the pursuit
of such goals really make our lives meaningful? It can
certainly be a vital means of gaining self-esteem and
thereby a measure of contentment. However, by subjecting our
entire life to this striving, we may well end up curtailing
our true potential, and never truly satisfied. Moreover, in
many cases this pursuit will primarily serve to compensate
for a deeply felt personal inadequacy, covering up an
unsettling sense of emptiness due to a dimly perceived lack
of love. Then one day, when the business folds, the shares
tumble, the job is lost or sickness strikes, the whole world
seems to collapse as the feeling of emptiness returns more
threateningly than ever. In some cases, such
determined activity may actually cause harm or suffering to
others. The more vigorously the goal is then being pursued,
the more damaging effects may ensue. This is self-evident in
the case of ruthless dictators like Hitler or Saddam
Hussein; but it also applies, for example, to entrepreneurs
building up their business empires with scant regard for the
environment or the welfare of their workers. Within the wider
context of life, such personal goals, though their
realization may be of great importance and benefit to the
individual, do not in themselves amount to a meaningful
purpose. Purpose, as it is here understood, involves the
determined realization of a project which, in some way or
other, serves the common good. It thereby ultimately
furthers the advance of humanity to a 'higher' state - a
state more loving, in harmony with nature and benefiting the
full human potential. We may define it as an energetic
driving-force single-mindedly working, in tune with all
energies of the same kind, for the greater good of
all. Purpose in
Nature and Society This kind of
driving-force we certainly find manifest everywhere in
nature. Here, an infinite variety of interdependent species
are continuously evolving towards a higher state of being.
Each occupying a meaningful place within the whole, they are
thereby constantly contributing to its overall
enhancement. But what about human
society? Purpose in this sense here seems all but absent -
too many there are of varied and conflicting views and
political forces. It is different of course with
totalitarian regimes. But a state-sponsored ideology such as
Nazism or Stalinist Communism, although undoubtedly a
single-minded driving-force, with its muzzling of diverging
opinions and persecution of minorities, can hardly be said
to be working for the benefit of all. On the other hand, in
'free' societies the goals truly shared by the masses, and
hence institutionalized, reflect the defensive tendencies of
the individual egos - e.g. achievement, consumption and
economic growth -, often to the detriment of marginalized
groups or the natural environment, whereas education, health
and welfare are the domain of more or less inflexible
bureaucracies. The purpose manifested
in society, therefore, is invariably purpose pursued by
individuals. So it is to the individual we must turn when
exploring it. With regard to a person's striving, how can we
distinguish 'true' purpose from goals that primarily ensure
our survival, or else serve to satisfy or enhance the
individual personality? The Love
Connection Let us consider the
motivation of well-known outstanding men and women whose
lifelong activities have clearly been inspired by such a
driving-force working to the benefit of all. Here, one thing
stands out. This is the intimate connectedness of their
aspirations to Faith and Love. This faith is shared by all
those who are gripped by the fire that causes them to devote
their lives to a noble cause. However, it is not confined to
any particular creed; it thus differs from 'religious'
belief. Independent of any dogmatic belief system, its
meaning derives from the context of Love in which it
unfolds. Note that Love is here
understood as not just a feeling but in a much more
far-reaching sense. According to any meaningful definition,
the typical characteristics by which 'love' may be defined
include its power to unify and connect, its universal,
energetic and undying nature, its imperviousness to change
and independence of Time and Space - to name but a few. It
may therefore be seen as identical with the universal
Creative Energy, the life essence shared by all beings and
connecting all phenomena. The hallmark of the
kind faith I am talking about is the intuitive trust of the
individual concerned that 'Love is'. That there exists in
the realm of Spirit, timeless and spaceless, an infinitely
benevolent Power which enlivens and connects all according
to unchanging, immutable laws whilst in itself forever
unaffected by change. And this Power not only creates,
nourishes and connects, but is as well always ready to
gladden our hearts, to console in adversity and heal our
wounds. Moreover, it relates intimately to our own lives:
its effects can be felt by us personally. And in being so
felt, it inspires us to become part and parcel of its
unifying mission by helping others feel it in their lives,
too. Traditionally the
Power so described is known as 'God'. This, however, being a
human concept denoting a person, is as such fraught with
numerous projections and misconceptions - as is vividly
illustrated by the often hateful conflicts between adherents
of different religions. God is here predominantly featured
as male - often with most unattractive 'male' attributes:
wrathful, jealous of other gods, demanding adulation and
unquestioning obedience, and severely punishing those who
hold other opinions. A concept of God clearly in the mould
of man's ego. What is thereby obscured is the dominant
characteristic of the Creator's nature which, despite all
their differences, all major religions are agreed on: ...
Love. Many of those who in
their life and work exemplify purpose are clearly inspired
by their religious beliefs. Consider the Apostles, Mohammed,
Albert Schweitzer, Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Theresa, Nelson
Mandela... But no matter what their religion: the faith
which unites them over all boundaries is clearly one that
transcends dogma. Moreover, others among them who are not
aligned to any specific creed - who, skeptical about dogma
or having experienced intolerance and bigotry, reject
organized religion and the related terminology - will in
their attitudes and activities (though they may not admit to
it) be found to be inspired by this very same kind of faith.
An outstanding example is India's first Prime Minister
Jawaharlal Nehru. Without an implicit faith in the reality
of Love as a spiritual force, the outstanding achievements
of all those mentioned here would not have been
possible. From Faith to
Action What, then, is the
implication of this connection for everyday living? What is
required of 'ordinary' persons who wish to dedicate their
lives to noble purpose? The first requirement
is, to let go. If we really trust in the existence of an
infinitely benevolent Creative Power, we can safely
relinquish our habitual worries and fears. So, most
importantly, we can dispense with the defensive stratagems
and addictions our individual ego has devised to deal with
what it perceives as danger, lack and helplessness. This
does not mean, instantly having to 'dissolve' our ego or our
connection with it. What it does mean is, no longer being
ruled by its concerns - cultivating a clear awareness of
where, by means of those emotions and defenses, it is
dictating how we should feel and act. And then choosing Love
as our new ruler instead. This choice will naturally be
connected with a system of universal human values that have
their origin in Love - such as Truth, Peace, Justice,
Tolerance and Forgiveness - among many others... The second
requirement: to 'let God'. I am here using a term familiar
to Christian believers for its universal connotation; it
should be kept in mind, however, that I am not talking about
a God in man's image but about the principle of Universal
Love, which informs our own being as it does all of
creation. And is not the Bible explicit about man having
been created 'in God's image'? In other words, human nature
in its true identity - its very essence being Love - may be
considered 'divine'. It can only be our ego with its belief
in danger and guilt, evil and inadequacy, that makes Love
seem inaccessible. What religion calls our 'sin' in truth
consists in this separation from our true nature, due to our
compulsive attachment and persistent subservience to this
ego. Once we are successful
in letting go and giving up that attachment, our pathway to
Love will no longer be blocked. We become aware of its
working all around us, throughout the natural universe as
well as in ourselves. 'Letting God' may be
based on conscious resolve or an intuitive insight in of
having let go. In either case it involves reconnecting to
our true nature beyond the ego: the 'God within'. In this
act of alignment, which may be achieved through practices
like prayer or meditation, we willingly offer all our
thoughts, words and deeds to Love, thus signifying our
readiness to surrender to its guidance. Without this vital
step our personal search for purpose will always carry the
danger of interference by those ego concerns. We may be
lured by the temptation of acquiring wealth, fame or social
status, or perhaps 'doing good deeds' so as to placate a
nagging sense of being unworthy. Yet when we do take this
second step, that search comes to an end. The act of having
welcomed into our life the very Force which constitutes the
true essence of our being beyond body and mind, will
automatically empower us. It will prepare us for the task at
hand and help us deal with any obstacles we might still
encounter. It will sharpen our awareness of our own
ego-driven agendas. It will not be planned but guided from
'within'. It means the end of personal pride, but equally of
the kind of doggedly determined effort we witness in the
case of Olympic athletes or self-made achievers. Now it is up to us to
take the third step. The steps of faith we have taken by
trusting in the benevolence of the universe, and on that
basis consciously connecting to Love, must now bear fruit.
We are called upon to practice love in action, thereby in
our daily activities becoming Love's willing instruments.
As I indicated before,
we are by no means disempowered in this surrender. On the
contrary, we are utilizing what is our true power in the
interest of the greater good. Even our everyday activities
gain meaning by being in accordance with our inner truth.
And we may well come to perceive that Love, without us
noticing, has in fact been training us in preparation for
our calling throughout our previous life. Lifelong
Preparation for the Calling Let me illustrate this
from my own experience. I originally studied Philosophy and
Modern Drama, whilst my ambition was to gain recognition as
a playwright. But I never made it, ending up as a language
teacher instead. By the time I was forty, I felt quite
frustrated about what I saw as lack of success in my working
life. A later attempt together with my partner to establish
a rural community also ended in failure. However, a reader's
response to one of my writings had induced me to undergo a
lengthy therapy process; and in our search for a community
site we had acquired, at an unexpectedly affordable price, a
large property with several buildings. Through a series of
amazing 'coincidences', and on the basis of my therapy
experiences, two years later I found myself facilitating a
workshop dealing with belief structures and emotions. In the
course of time, what did materialize on our new property was
a small healing center where, spurred on by an increasing
demand for it, I was to develop that psychological self-help
course further by teaching it there (and later elsewhere as
well). The point of all this:
I had never before in my life envisaged ever doing this kind
of work, let alone undertaken any specific training for it.
Yet now I was coming to see how my previous activities
throughout my working life - the studies in Philosophy and
Drama, my own practice in writing and the language teaching
- had provided me with invaluable tools without which that
particular course would have been impossible. Moreover, our
new property provided the perfect venue for it. And while it
was not particularly rewarding financially, the tangible
benefits attested by practically all participants gradually
convinced me that I had at last found what might be called
my true vocation. I had not sought it out. However, despite
my distress about apparent failure, I had always retained my
faith in Love. The therapy that followed my 'mid-life
crisis' had brought me to the point of letting go all the
frantic hopes and planning my mind had been filled with.
There just seemed no other way than surrender to Love's
guidance. And gradually a clear pattern began to unfold: I
had been enlisted in Love's service all along, being
prepared throughout my life for the particular work I was to
undertake. What I now had to be
vigilant about was to resist the temptation of utilizing my
newly developed skills for achieving fame or financial gain,
and remain focused on the Higher Purpose of serving Love by
offering help to those needing it. These days, new
challenges keep testing that resolve; yet although I am not
entirely immune to doubt, I never abandon hope. For once we
accept Love as the supreme guide of our activities, purpose
keeps being fueled by the Holy Fire which is ignited within
our heart and mind in that surrender. It is a point of no
return. We see that lives are changed through the love we
are transmitting. Our own life has gained meaning, and in
that context any doubts the ego still fabricates are like
clouds that pass across the sky and then
disperse. The Purpose of
Life The question must be
asked: Can we manifest purpose without the kind of faith
here outlined? My answer is 'No', because the sole motivator
for seriously wanting to contribute to making this world a
better place is Love. I mentioned earlier
some prominent individuals who in their lives' achievement
exemplified this. But there are, and always have been,
countless others unknown to most, who in their particular
field wholeheartedly dedicated their lives to that same
goal. They may be found practically anywhere: these days
working - often alongside like-minded spirits - in NGOs or
hospitals, as aid workers or environmentalists; perhaps also
in the political arena, in scientific research, as artists
with a message, lawyers fighting for the rights of
minorities - or just being carers for a loved one. In
material terms, they may achieve great things, or their
efforts may touch but a few individuals. However, powered by
Love with its unique ability to truly transform lives, they
will invariably bear fruit and - even in the midst of
temporary failure or indifference if not persecution - be
ultimately triumphant. And what about those
who, through circumstances or lack of faith, are prevented
from ever hearing the call? Those millions whose lives are
taken up with raising a family or trying to carve a niche
for themselves in society - those who, like myself in
younger days, feel a need to fulfil a personal ambition, or
who are simply struggling to survive amidst overwhelming
challenges? - They may never have any chance to be inspired
by purpose in their daily work. However, in their
lives these people still share a grand purpose with all
humanity. For as to the purpose of life as such, I have no
doubt it is basically of the same kind as that which
inspires those single-mindedly dedicated individuals in
their loving activities. Life is transient and
brief, and full of setbacks and affliction. The one force in
the universe that is permanent and unchanging, that is able
to offer comfort in suffering and heal troubled minds, that
has the power to bring together people of the most disparate
backgrounds and to initiate peace where there was war,
hatred and destruction, is Love. Love in its true form -
whether we call it 'God' or by any other name. It is in any
case not the kind of substitute 'love' the ego may dream
about. If we accept that Love
also constitutes our true, non-material essence as humans,
then surely life's purpose can only be, to manifest that
truth by the way we live. To open our hearts to all that
surrounds us in the face of all life's challenges -
spreading the Love that we are in celebration of our
oneness, so it may multiply in its manifestation and heal
the manifold wounds of our planet. This applies to everyone,
no matter where and in what circumstances they may live. And
those who exemplify purpose in their daily activities may
well be considered the trailblazers lighting the way for all
others. In unflinching commitment to a particular cause to
which they were led by their intuitive faith, they offer
inspiration and hope to the many who, hungering for love,
are still held captive to personal struggle or desires,
doubt and confusion. With the power of Love
fueling it, true purpose cannot be defeated. At worst, it
may temporarily be held up. But, under Love's certain and
continued guidance it can in the long run be relied on to
contribute to humanity's evolving, in tune with the purpose
in nature, to a higher state, in a world in which Love is
steadily on the increase - a state of peace and contentment
where we are at long last in harmony with our inner truth.
Rainer
Taëni, Mullumbimby NSW, Australia Internet:
For web site 'Reawakening to Love/ Umkehr zur Liebe' go to:
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See also:
http://www.purereason.org/taeni.html
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